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| Aleksandra | Decki:Kako vie gledate na shopingot?...ili..Dali na toa gledate kako eden vid nacin da pominete solidno i ubavo vreme zaedno? |
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| LIDIJA - SKorpija | Mmmhh gorlivo prashanje. Mazite obicno znaat shto sakaat da kupat i ne gubat vreme. Odat,odbiraat,plakjaat i izleguvaat. Nie se zanesuvame vo shopingot,razgleduvame,sporeduvame,probuvame i na kraj zavrshuvame so 10 kupeni raboti,a sme trgnale po edna.I obichno partnerot ni sluzi kako shofer i nosach na kesite.Epa kako nema da prashuva"dali si gotova? i kako ne kje pozelenuva? Vakva kombinacija na partneri e = katastrofalen shoping Sekoja chest na iskluchoci i alal da im e. A jas uzivam da si "shopinguvam" sama ili so drugarka mi.Imavme ponekogash i eden drugar, dosta pomlad od nas, koj ne druzeshe po shoping turite samo za da gleda seir(a noseshe i po nekoja kesa kad-tad |
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| SpaceLily | Sama se si pazaram za da ne se nerviram. | |||
| RaGeAnGeL | imam odeno vo shoping so drugari i super mi e so darko ednas duri i zashtediv pari |
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| Sunshine | Mozham poshto shopingot vremenski mi trae isto kako na mashkite. Edno vreme ne vleguav vo garderoba uopshte, pa koga kje gi oblechev stvarite doma ako stojat super, ako ne se delea po lugje i crven krst. Vo posledno vreme probuvam po garderobi, ali limit mi e po tri partali na eden shoping. Gledam na shoping ko na maltretiranje. |
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| wolf_pack | sasha а за што ќе ојме шопинг за да знам унапред?:) p.s. ако е за чевли голем бонус треба да има за мене :P |
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| BorisVM | Hmm, jas vo princip mnogu ne sakam da se vlechkam koga neshto se kupuva, vleguvam i go kupuvam i chao. E sega, edinstvena kupuvachka aktivnost vo koja se pridruzhuvam vednash e koga se kupuvaat bikini. :) | |||
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| Tanja19 | na shopping pretezno sama odam...nikoj nema zivci za so mene...a i podobro mi e koga sama odam,posebno ako treba nekoi pobitni raboti da si kupam,a ne neshto so ne mi ni treba...smireno,poleka si shetam,si gledam,si probuvam... nekogas koga ne sum raspolozena za sama da odam po dukani,e togas odam so moite dve najdobri drugarki i nekogas ide i eden nash drugar...ali ponabrzina e togash shoppingot,samo nekolku saata i izmegu shoping i posle shopping se sednuva na kafe:)pointereno e so drushtvo.ali ne so partner,tuku so drugari i drugarki... inace ne mi e vazno dali odam po dukani za samo jas neshto da si kupam...uzivam i da pravam drushtvo,da pomognam vo izborot:) |
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| SpaceLily | quote:Jas ko kupvev za Nova godina bev so dark i so mufla |
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| riba | najubavo mi e koga shoppinguvam sama. koga ke e toj so mene,samo me vlece i edvaj ceka da izlezeme od butikot.ili pak mi povtoruva "e ajde de,ako ti se sviga kupi si go!"...taka da ne mi e bas po kejf,ali ponekogas stvarno me mrzi sama da se setam pa go vleckam, i primetuvam deka sum go naviknala,tocno ja znae marsutata i koga ke mu zdosadi ednostavno,si ceka-nadvor! |
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| Aleksandra | Koga idam vo shoping sama, ne idam da se shetkam samo ili nechkam okolu stvarite i ne gubam vreme. Znam shto sakam, idam striktno za toa, go kupuvam i cao. Shto se odnesuva na idenje vo shoping so mojot decko, toa go gledam kako eden vid nacin da pomineme kavlitetno i ubavo vreme zaedno. Si priznavam deka denovive koga bev na odmor so mojot decko vo Las Vegas imashe dosta stvari koi sakav da si gi kupam vo moite omileni prodavnici, i bratov Mario-Vegas me predizvikuvashe da udram eden zdrav shoping ali ne se osudiv na toa zs ne sakav da gi zamaram i da me cekaat, imashe mnogu poubavi raboti da se pravat i vidat vo Las Vegas. |
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| V irginia |
hahahahaaaaa....kako mi to poznato! gleda na saat, vozdivnuva od dosada i prashuva...Dali si gotova? Sakam na shoping sama....Jas sakam svoe zdravje |
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| BECHA | Haha...shoping so maz mi, nema sansi. Na pocetok koga se zemavme, za da bide fin doagase so mene, i se tegnese od prodavnica do prodavnica, ama kako sto pominuvase vremeto mi stana jasno deka ke mora sama da shopinguvam. I taka sega obicno vo sabota, maz mi i sin mi odat vo park, a jas niz prodavnici, nekako poubavo mi e sama, na raat da razgleduvam. So maz mi edinstveno vo Best Buy moze da odime zaedno, togas samo ne se buni |
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| Legal-Eagle | There is only ONE man that i would ever go shopping with and that man is my DAD, that way i know my credit card gets a rest. Every Saturday is a religious shopping day for myself and my friends with a trip to "the salon" where we pamper ourselves for the first part of the morning, following by brunch and some serious retail therapy, a late lunch and finished by a pedicure by about 5.00pm. If i miss this ritual, i then start to have convulsions and suffer from severe withdrawal symptons and become a crappy cow until i get my fix The only time i go shopping with my partner is to buy wine, for his has an exceptional pallate. That way, i know i will never ever have a bad drop with my meals. As far as shopping for neccesities, you pay someone to do that for you or i try and fit it into the job description of my PA. |
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| BECHA |
Let me just say that that the topic is about shopping with or without your partner, therefore your rattling about the moms and their tots was OFF topic. I find your post offensive on several levels. First, anyone who has kids knows how hard it is to tackle the grocery list and the tempted child at the same time. It happened to me once, my son was 2 at the time, and I was in the store with a cart full of groceries when he decided to have a major meltdown. I had two choices, continue and get the looks of shoppers like you or go home. I left the cart and the store immediately, not wanting to disturb the likes of you, however, I still feel bad for leaving all that stuff in the cart, most of it perishable. Ever since than I try to get the shopping done when my son is in preschool or at home with my husband. I assume you have no kids, so it’s easy for you to say these things, but anyone who has a child knows that no matter how well behaved a child is sooner or later they all have their moments, and sometimes those moments happen in the store. Second, I think you forget that after all, this is a MACEDONIAN forum, and many members are actually from Macedonia. Let me quote you here : “As far as shopping for neccesities, you pay someone to do that for you or i try and fit it into the job description of my PA.” Most of the Macedonian moms CAN NOT afford to have someone else do the shopping for them, as a matter of fact, they can barely afford the necessities. Your little bragging about having a PA I am not even going to address. So if you ever find yourself in a store wearing your designer bag that you daddy paid for, remember that the mom in the velour tracksuit is just trying to do her best, because that’s all she can do. And since you believe that we are all entitled to your opinion, I hope that you will at least try to understand mine. |
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| Legal-Eagle | oh? So we have to speak about shopping with your partner in Macedonia? Sorry i didnt see any of those guidelines stipulated! Maybe you can further draw that to my attention. Secondly, i wanted to share my shopping experiences with members of the forum, which i believe is to be the purpose of a forum. Your son had a "major meltdown"? Please dont get me started on parenting skills, that would be another topic altogether. Yes, children do have their moments, what makes the difference is how the parent handles these so called "meltdowns". I am NOT bragging, it is a fact of my life! I do not make any apologises for the fact that i can afford the luxury of having someone do my shopping for me. I do not share the trials and tribulations of the people you are referring to. That said, it does not mean that i do not have any regard for these people who are not as fortunate. Each and everyday i often thank my lucky stars that i am in the minority. As for the designer bag that Daddy paid for i wont even bat an eyelid, nothing gives my father greater joy than to see me enjoying my life the way he never did because he was building his business and laying the foundation for my future. Anyway, my father has a great eye for fashion, he is my father, and shopping with him is a great way for us to spend time during our busy schedules. Just keep in mind, Daddy does NOT pay for everything, that i do earn an income, nor do i appreciate your underlying current that it is such a bad thing that my father provides well for me. For goodness sake he is my father! Why wouldnt he? Yes i do respect your right to your opinion, though i do not agree with it, nonetheless, that is what the forum is all about. |
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| BECHA |
Legal Eagle, You are not qualified to talk to me about parenting skills, sorry about that. As a reply to the rest of your post: LOL |
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| Legal-Eagle | Maybe i am NOT qualified to speak about parenting skills, but the fact that you are a parent does not qualify you any more than the next person who is childless. I would be concerned if my child was experiening a "meltdown". "LOL" you can laugh.Usually an uneasy response for someone who does not have anything of substance to offer. For i can assure you that i am really enjoying those sprees with my "Daddy". |
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| BECHA |
LOL , not because I have nothing to say, but because is funny, and also because I don't want to say anything else. Me and you going back and forth is OFF TOPIC. BTW, I hope you are a teenager, because your views certanly correspond to a view of a teenager, not a grown woman. Should you feel the need to contaminate my brain some more with your wisdom, set up a new topic or PM me, since as I said we are way |
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| Legal-Eagle | Like i said, the fact that you have children does not qualify you more than those who are childless, having children does not instanteously make you a good parent. I am not here to judge your parenting skills. I fail to see the humour in what is so funny about shopping with one of my parents? I am sincerely sorry you dont have that kind of a relationship with one or both of your parents, maybe you can have it with your child/children. It really is an enriching experience, not only is my dad my mentor, he is also my best friend and mentor and shopping is just one of the experiences we share. Contamination? Are you that fickle that someone can change your mind if you are so hell bent on what you truly believe? Personally i dont care what age group you place me in, once again, i see this as your failure to be able to digest or comprehend a differing opinion. There is a word for people like you, however, i will not stoop to being insulting. I sincerely hope that you dont tainted your child/children with such narrowmindedness. But who am I to tell you how to raise your children, but as a parent i would think that you would want the best for your child/children regards. The colour "green" comes to mind. |
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| BECHA |
Thank God I have no insecurities when it comes to the way I raise my child. You think you know so much, but you don’t know me, or my parents or my child. I dared to use some of your postings to show YOU the relationship you have with YOUR parents. "I cant ring my mummy i dont know where she is, or her number" "I can not even call my mother for Mother's Day because she has gone away with Dad and i cant remember their mobiles. But i am NOT that silly, i will sort through the phone bills and try and find them." You don't know your parents phone numbers, you don't know where your mother is????? And this next one will probably offer an explanation why your parents feel the need to buy you stuff. So don’t feel sorry for me, since I have lived with my parent's love and attention every day of my life, you however were shipped off to a boarding school and now is time to buy you stuff just in case you decide to resent them. Do what my parents did with me .... enroll the embryo into a private boarding school and pick then up when they turn 18 and then enroll them into a interstate university. It works wonders! And it is tax deductible. You will probably have plenty more to say, I wil however stop at this, because I have a child to raise and can not spend my days in front of the lap top. I do wish you all the best and I truly believe that as long as you are happy with the decisions you make and the things you say - that's all that matters. |
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| Legal-Eagle | Yep you are probably right, my parents probably do feel a bit guilty that they did not spend time with me as a child, and society has made them feel as though they have failed. But they haven't. They gave me the best gift any parent can give a child and that was a great education, the ability to make my own decisions based on my own perceptions of what is right and wrong for me. They further encouraged me to believe in myself to have courage of my convictions and NOT to conform to the masses. For this i am eternally grateful. I dont know where my parents are at any given point in time, they are grown adults and are enjoying the fruits of their labour, they travel extensively and i may not see my mother for weeks on end, but time permitting, i speak with her regularly, because she spends time with children with disabilities, maybe she feels the need to try and redeem herself, but NOT in my eyes, the gifts of love and understanding she has bestowed on me as an adult are priceless compared to the years she would have spent with me to change my nappies, breastfeed me, slap a bandage on me. I never went without, but she made the greatest sacrifice of all and that was she made certain that she surrounded me with people who could nurture me to become independant of the "social ladder" and the ability to think for myself without being stiffled by our ethnic mentality in a land such as Australia where she believed the migrants at the time had not changed their mindset from they time they had arrived in the country. All i can imagine at this point in time, is a very angry and livid woman, who claims that she is way too busy to respond to my posts because she has a child to raise. I hope you do not instill any of your hatred that you feel for people who are more fortunate than yourself on your child, it would be a crime! I live my life according to me! It is all about me and those whom i care about. I only choose to have people in my life that have something positive to offer, whether it be their liberal outlook, their humourous way at looking at life, their humbleness or just their plain kindness. Bitter and twisted people are NOT welcome in my life. If you fail to understand that you and i live different lives without being offensive then i am truly sad that you feel that way. I will refrain from being condescending and say that i pity you. I dont pity anyone, it is highly offensive, for those whom i share the same sentiment i show empathy. We reference to her mobile number, i really dont know it, i dont even know my own, i refuse to make mental notes or clutter my mind with insignificance when everything i need is at a touch of a button, unfortunately the phone that held that information was destroyed. And your point is? What? That not knowing my parents phone number detracts from the relationship we have? Oh please you are now clutching at straws. If you really want to know, i am my father's daughter, that is why i spend so much time with him, we share many interests such the business, sports, recreational activities and of course SHOPPING if you can not comprehend what i have with my father well then too bad for you, maybe you need to brush up on your comprehension skills. I am not asking you to validate my existence, i would never something of someone whom i am now certain is unable to see past their own nose. If you are genuine about being a caring, considerate and loving mother, than i am more than certain that the time you spend replying to any of my posts could be spent with your child. After all, you would have to be the best parent on this forum and you have the f@cking audacity to critisize mine. You truly are an INSULT to your own child. I wouldnt trade my parents for the whole world. How much time did it take you to collate my quotes? Time well spent? But dont take my advice, you couldnt even if it was with good intentions, the fact remains you are UNABLE to. My humblest apologise to the Topic Poster, i know i have deviated from SHOPPING, but i just couldnt help myself. |
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| Aleksandra | Ehough said... We must go on with the subject...and that is "Shoping so Partner/ka". |
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| Legal-Eagle | I do wish you all the best DITTO and I truly believe that as long as you are happy with the decisions you make and the things you say - that's all that matters.Yep, that is the most important thing to me. | |||
| xokaido | cool stuffs...:) | |||
| Aleksandra | Malku se zabega od topicov, bi sakala i drugite chlenovi da se izjasnat na temava. |
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| The_Crow | Eve jas da ti kazam tatko mi kako go resava problemov. Majka mi vika trba da se odi da se kupi nesto, i tatko mi ja prasuva kolku pari ti treba ovaa vika tamu nekoja suma 10000 denari 15000 denari ovoj vadi i dava i si produzue da si tera rabota, ni prasuva so kupila ni kako kupila ne go zanima coekot toa legenda e. Odelca sam si kupuva kravati ide plaka i tera, ne mu ja misli, a ne cel den da se gubi na nesto ne znacajno. Jas koga idam vo soping najmnogu se nerviram, ke najdam nesto ubavo nema da mi se fati ke fatam da pcujam da pokazuam nervoza u pm neka ide. | |||
| Aleksandra |
Nemoj da se nerviras, najdi si devojka koja ke ti pomaga vo shopingot i vo izborot. |
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