Hope

Hope
SydneyGuy	I find myself doing some things and then after it's all done I think to myself 'What a disappointment!'. I'll give you an example. Last Saturday night I spent the whole night with a female friend of mine that I haven't seen in a few months. We watched a few movies together, we had some snacks, some drinks and we talked about what each one of us has done with our lives since we had met previously. Keep in mind that we are just friends (and nothing more than friends) and so there was no 'funny business' going on At one point we started up with the same kind of arguments that we had a few months ago. This night was a typical night for us. We had always had arguments in the past. Some of those arguments left both of us with a very uncomfortable feeling. I felt like I wanted to just get up and leave - that's how uncomfortable I felt. It was at this point that I was asking myself why I decided to go visit her again. I think the answer to that questions is this: before I decide to do something I'm always hoping that something wonderful will happen during that time. Instead, what happens is that I'm left with a sense of regret about the whole thing afterwards. Does this kind of thing happen to others here? If it does then I'd like to know all about it. So post your thoughts/comments freely.
SydneyGuy	quote: Originally posted by Angeldust If at first you don't succeed, try try again? Not in that case! Find someone you get along with to hang out with ya! :) Thank you sincerely for your advice
Angeldust	SydneyGuy--Got another good topic for me? You're too easy. :)
Angeldust	"Yes" and is there anyone else in the world who gets along with you?
SydneyGuy	quote: Originally posted by Angeldust "Yes" and is there anyone else in the world who gets along with you? I don't understand your question. Can you please re-phrase it so that I can respond to it?
slasa	quote: Originally posted by SydneyGuy quote: Originally posted by Angeldust "Yes" and is there anyone else in the world who gets along with you? I don't understand your question. Can you please re-phrase it so that I can respond to it? ccccc . pa ako ne mozete na angliski pocnete da komunicirate na Makedonski cel svet ke ve razbere
SydneyGuy	Ova Angeldust ne znae ni eden zbor makedonski. Toa e problemot.
Angeldust	If at first you don't succeed, try try again? Not in that case! Find someone you get along with to hang out with ya! :)
Natasa	Vaka i jas imav eden takov slucaj vo zivotov ama ne se sekiraj site imame po nesto takvo.Jas stalno vikam ne ocekvi nisto ubo da ti se slucit i ke vidis nesto navistina ubavo ke ti se sluci.A ova ako ti e drugarka navistina nemat da se sekras olku kolku so se sekiras sega.Jas mislam deka nesto pojke osekas ama ne sakas da priznaes sega. Be good take care!
SydneyGuy	quote: Originally posted by Natasa A ova ako ti e drugarka navistina nemat da se sekras olku kolku so se sekiras sega.Jas mislam deka nesto pojke osekas ama ne sakas da priznaes sega. I have to admit that at one point I had bigger expectations, but lots of things have happened since then and now I have found another woman that I spend more of my time with. This current woman is a lot more easy going than the previous one, so I don't have any compelling reasons to keep persisting with the previous one. I refuse to waste my time with women who will not reciprocate when I do something nice for them. Nor should any other guy/man on this planet feel obliged to continue to be nice to any girl/woman who doesn't have enough brain power to work out for herself that a friendship is NOT a one-way street.