Sex without love

Sex without love
SydneyGuy
 
I've taken part in many online forum discussions (especially with Australian-based members). After reading about what others get up to these days, the conclusion I've made is that having a 'sex buddy' these days seems to be more common than it was a decade ago.

I'm talking about people who have an understanding with somebody in which they meet for sex on a regular basis and then both of them go about living their seperate lives with minimal contact between each other.

So, are people taking this option because they are so busy these days that they don't have the time to have a 'normal relationship'? Or is this something that they have decided to do while they are waiting for the right person to come along?

What are your views about having a purely physical relationship with somebody that doesn't include love? Have you ever had this kind of a relationship with anybody or would you ever consider doing anything like this?
Natasa I have known people who have had sex partners,just when they fell like and for them it s normal.I cant say i ve done it,because i dont like things like that.
But these days everything is posible so why not.If they want that it s ok, unless they have another partner in their lifes.Sex is healthy thing and if they like it that way, why not.Honestly, i dont know how can you have sex without felling something for that person.But there are people who dont care about that,it is reaction of the brain.And they dont care after that.
wolf_pack sure why not, what else do single people do anyways? Take walks at the beach?

Keeps a healthy lifestyle and who knows, someone will come along for a longer stay.
Angeldust Call me old fashioned if you want, but having a sex-buddy sounds kinda like having a pet without the responsibility. You mean you can try out someone, don't feel anything for them, and just say "so long" when you're through? It is so shallow over a long term. Only very numb people would do this on a regular basis. But I understand that it is popular. Can someone who is practicing this go on to a normal-relationship in the future? Or are they so abnormal that it just would never be.
Natasa You know i think they are people who have sex on the regular basis with sex-buddy.And the thing is they think it is normal,for them and that is healthy.I know single people, who are doing that for years,and they fell that s the best thing,which i cant understand.And even when some of them got married, stayed with the other sex buddy,fot the sake of the sex.