You and your husband/partner
You and your husband/partner
mafisKumA First rule of thumb is never go to sleep angry with each other. Men at times can be more demanding then children. They want you to cater to their every whim. Make a point of spending quality time with your husband/partner.
MacieinMiami Ladies, Confident with yourself and your marriage? Invite your best friend to join you. Spice it up and Im pretty sure that your man would be absolutely thrilled. [:D]
lepak096 hahahahaah now i know what type of person we are dealing with here, macie no wonder you married a black man no white man would have taken you hahahahahahaha just a joke i had to get it out. pozdrav
MacieinMiami why do ppl like u ..with nothing to say ALWAYS say it sooo loudly?
lepak096 just ignore her plz[;)] aj sea da probame da se vratime na temava[:)]
MacieinMiami All Hillbillies, Rage you must feel quite powerfull. Im gonna give up on Macies again. I was trying to gain faith but a few of you proved yourselves.
RaGeAnGeL
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Originally posted by MacieinMiami
All Hillbillies, Rage you must feel quite powerfull. Im gonna give up on Macies again. I was trying to gain faith but a few of you proved yourselves.
r u trying to be smart?funny?or???i mean...what is really your point?u r trying to gain faith by acting like this?r u that dumb or is it just me?i think that u r malcious[:)]maybe im wrong we'll see
OooOo
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Originally posted by MacieinMiami
All Hillbillies, Rage you must feel quite powerfull. Im gonna give up on Macies again. I was trying to gain faith but a few of you proved yourselves.
Si se zaprashala nekogash dali mozhda problemot lezhi vo tebe?
BECHA Thanks Rage, jas za zal uspeav da procitam sto bese napisano. Mace, ocigledno nemas sto da pridoneses za temava, so just move on...
MacieinMiami Im a true blooded typical Macedonian, a rebel without a cause, trying to always prove something to someone and mostly macedonians dont stick together like other cultures. Sound familiar, Thought so! As much as Macies yak & yak about the greeks, at the end of the day relentlesly they are there for one another through anything. A macie will say "bre bratcho, ne mosham". [:D][:D]Ever go to a family get together and all the aunts are sitting there smiling while they are burning inside about who has newer & bigger curtains and who's plastic is thicker on there sofa's or whichever woman picks up a drink or a cigarette is a corva. LOL - Hiliarious and this is so true.
Sunshine
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Originally posted by MacieinMiami
Ever go to a family get together and all the aunts are sitting there smiling while they are burning inside about who has newer & bigger curtains and who's plastic is thicker on there sofa's or whichever woman picks up a drink or a cigarette is a corva. LOL - Hiliarious and this is so true.
Not really...it must be that only your aunts do that. And how is this related to the topic?
MacieinMiami FUNNY ISN'T IT.....they are all macedonians !!!!![:D][:D][:D] Proste lugye thats my point. Probably we are also all related somehow...[:0] Isn't it also hilarious that the same few on here continue to respond since obviously it bothers them [;)]. Did I touch a soft spot? [:D]
mafisKumA may i please remind MacieinMiami that the topic is about husband/partner and not about aunties, uncles, cousins, truck drivers or neighbours thank you
MacieinMiami DELETE DELETE DELETE ... Why a forum if we cant expess ourselves. Morons !
RaGeAnGeL u had the same post twice who's the moron here??
MacieinMiami DELETE DELETE DELETE ... [:o)] Filter through each one Rage, You sure are in a rage with yourself [:D] BTW, Your the moron perfect example of one too! Hater ...
sasha
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Originally posted by MacieinMiami
DELETE DELETE DELETE ... [:o)] Filter through each one Rage, You sure are in a rage with yourself [:D] BTW, Your the moron perfect example of one too! Hater ...
BOT To you whoever you are.... Please respect yourslef and than the members of this forum, so as their opinions. Each one of us has different opinions, and plsease dont judge people or last thing you should say to someone here "moron". Stick to the subjest of this topic and put ypurslef together for your own sake. EOT best regards, sasha
MacieinMiami what???? whoever you are, can you try to say what you mean? You seem lost for words. Pishi po nashe ako ne moshish [8)]
sasha
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Originally posted by MacieinMiami
what???? whoever you are, can you try to say what you mean? You seem lost for words. Pishi po nashe ako ne moshish [8)]
BOT And this is your 3rd wornning.... drzi se na temata... EOT
mafisKumA again I would like to remind MacieinMiami that the topic is about husband/partner, should you have any qualms the following link is where you can have your say about such matters http://www.vmacedonia.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=14915&whichpage=2
mafisKumA guys show her you're thinking of her by making it a habit to give her something i.e. a single flower (even from your own garden - if you don't have a garden pinch a flower from the neighbours garden [:p]) ladies show him you're thinking of him by writing little notes and leaving them in places you know he'll look (pockets, briefcase ..) notes can say little things like "love you" "thinking about you" "being apart from you saddens me" ... you get the drift [;)]
sasha Da go skrsime mrazvo...Kumi...jas nemam nitu maz nitu partner vo momentov. No, ne znaci deka sum go nemala. Den znae da bide dosta stresen dali i u brak, vrska itd. od razlicni pricini: deca, rabota, fakultet, financii i slicno..Koga se vrakame doma posle eden naporen den mnogu e lesno da se "isturish" na nekoj/a od nervoza, pa i na dete...A toa e najcesta "scena" medzu partnerite vo deneshno vreme. I ne mora da e "garden pinch of flowers", ali nekad samo eden pogled e dovolen da "prevede"...( Nervozna sum ne mi zameraj, ali mi trebas i mi nedostasuvas)..i potoa najdobro e da se trgnes da iskuliras, da udrish eden laden tush...za osvestuvanje...pa idemo dajle:))))))
mafisKumA At the beginning of marriage everything is so rosy, you only have each other. Most men become accustomed to being the centre of affection and attention. Relationships are strained when a baby is introduced into the picture. It’s difficult enough to deal with the hormonal transformation that a woman undergoes after birth let alone everything else that is expected of her i.e. sleepless nights, problems with feeding the baby, housework in general and catering to the husbands every whim. Men are somewhat reluctant to come to terms with the fact that they been replaced as number one by the new addition to the family. During these difficult times some men entertain the idea of straying and start looking for greener pastures. Remember, even though the grass may be greener on the other side you still have to mow the lawn.
Legal-Eagle Dear Kuma I would hate to burst your bubble, but a recent article in the Weekender of the Sydney Morning Herald dedicated a four page spread to things that will not survive in this century ... and guess what was one of them? ... Monogamy! That is a fact of life, and it only exists in its purest form in a few cases and the fact of the matter is that monogamy further exists in the majority in a contradictory manner. Yes it would be wonderful to meet someone you love and live happily ever after, but to only love person your whole life is to ceasing to love freely and truly. Now before anyone gets all riled up about it, i am only stating an opinion but the there is no denying the infidelities that occur daily. To avoid acknowledging this would be to live with your head buried in the sand dunes. I was asked by my mother's best friend just before Xmas at a party why i am still not 'married' my response was .... "I have the best husband in the world ..... everyone else's"! Which was met with a firm slap on the arse for being so brazen. Forgive Me (NOT) i live my life according to me and NOT the masses, at least i am honest and true to myself and do not suppress my desires, thoughts or wishes, amd i a sinner ... HELL YES!
mafisKumA Legal, I agree, all be it rather apprehensively, with most of your post, that the sad reality is just that. My personal view is that these days, be it through lack of want of trying, so little effort is put into a marriage. You are single with no attachment or responsibility to any other party (with the exception of your parents still nagging for grandchildren [;)]) and are free to do what you will. Having said that, my concern is with the “everyone else’s husband” that are audacious enough to stray without considering the consequences. Can anyone be that oblivious as to what they stand to lose? Without even mentioning the emotional and financial pain they will inflict on their family.
Legal-Eagle Kuma is it no secret that i suffer from committment phobia, but i am not alone, i am actually in the masses. Consequences? I would brief the top 5 divorce lawyers therefore rendering the spouse unable to seek their advise. Sad? Maybe. What is sadder is living a farce of a life. I dont deny the "happily ever after" would be ideal, unfortunately it is no longer a reality well not for me. A lot of nasty adjectives and nouns would creep across one's mind at my existence but as if i give a flying f#ck. What would mortify me more is to know that i am being deceived, then you are prompted to ask that i am aiding and abeiting. Nope! I do not have a duty to anyone that i am NOT committed to. I wonder if there is a diagnosable (if there is such a word) condition. I have being reading Allan and Barbara Pease ... you know the titles "why women cry and men lie" "why men dont listen and women can't read maps" i think it is part of our biological make-up. But then again, most of those books justify men's inability to commit and when it is put into writting and published it makes it all ok ... doesnt it? Anyway i still believe in what is good for the goose is good for the gander i would bet my bottom dollar that there wouldnt be a person who has not comtemplated "straying" at one time or another. But i do agree with your point about never going to bed angry with your partner ... send them home until they are finished sulking[:D]Oh but make sure that they have done the dishes or at least loaded the dishwasher. I still cant bring myself to get my hands wet in detergent.