Dali sex e najvazen element vo edna vrska?

Dali sex e najvazen element vo edna vrska?
Aleksandra	Psihologija... Vo pogolem broj slucaevi, mushkite so koi razgovarate za vaznosta na sexot sigurno i ke vi kazat deka e najbiten element vo edna vrska. I samite znaete deka tuka vsushnost nema mnogu greshki-sex e vazen, pozitiven, ohrabruvacki element na sekoja vrska. No, imajte na um deka ne stanuva zbor za neshto shto e presudno. Sex moze da bide "obedinuvachki element", faktor koj ne soedinuva vo ozbilna vrska, ali isto taka moze da bide i "razgraduvachki element", da ne vovlece vo strast koja gi ubiva emociite. Kako i da se kaze, gestovi na paznja, stvari povrzani so romantika, i samiot sex predstavuva eden vid na komunikacija pomedzu dve zaljubeni osobi. Toa e izrazuvanje na najintimnite custva i pokazuvanje na zelba za bliskost so partnerot. Sex e toa sto ne spojuva, ili ona sto ne razdvojuva; sex e ona shto dve osobi so radost go iscekuvaat i na koj se prepushtaat. Dosta cesto, sexualnosta moze da bide i jasna slika za odnosot pomedzu partnerite: ako partnerite vo sve se slagaat i nivniot sexualen zivot ke bide sovrshen, a vrskata uspesha i obratno. Medzutoa, se deshava i da vo edna vrska ima ozbilni sexualni problemi, a sepak da opstanuva. Ili pak obratna situacija koga sexualnata strast ide protiv partnerite i nivnata ljubov. Da bi edna vrska funkcionirala kako shto treba, potrebno e pred sve da vo nea ima verba, i potpolna otvorenost pomedzu partnerite. Nema razlog da ne im kazete na vashite partneri/ki shto vi smeta. So otvoren razgovor mnogu raboti mozat da se reshat, a nemoraat da bidat od sexualna priroda. Sosema e i mozno da tokmu toj razgovor bi napravil da vashiot sexualen zivot dobie edna strastvena nota....Nema nieden razlog da ne se pozabavljate so razgovor okolu sexot dokolku toa vi e najbitno i do toa vi e dojdeno.... Dali sex e najvazen element vo edna vrska? p.s Odgovor so edna recenica ne e prifaten. Ova e tema od oblasta na Psihologijata...bi ve zamolila za potemelni odgovori..
Duh	Potemelni odgovori? Pa ti vekje se kaza, Sasha. :) Ako zboruvame za toj poim - vrska, toa avtomatski ne mora da znaci i vistinska ljubov. Sekoj si ima svoe poimanje na vistinska ljubov, no taa e sepak samo edna - duhovna, polna so razbiranje i reslivi problemi dokolku se pojavat. Mozebi mnogu kje me napadnat sega, no seksot e samo perverzija, misla vo glavata, chin potreben samo za razmnozuvanje, kaj nekoi mnogu izrazen, duri i premnogu (mislam na site onie pozi i se drugo :)), kaj nekoi nimalku, ne zatoa sto se impotentni ili frigidni, tuku zatoa sto se daleku nad tie igri za deca. Moze da receme - mudreci.
GiTaRiSt	Za mene ne e kazuvam iskreno za mene ne e ima i drugi raboti osfen sex..
Aleksandra	quote: Originally posted by Duh Potemelni odgovori? Pa ti vekje se kaza, Sasha. :) quote: Ako zboruvame za toj poim - vrska, toa avtomatski ne mora da znaci i vistinska ljubov. Ovdeka se slagam so tebe.Ponekad osobi se vo vrska vo koja nema nikakva ljubov, i vo istata se za da zadovolat svoi potrebni ili pak da dojdat do nekoja cel. quote: Sekoj si ima svoe poimanje na vistinska ljubov, no taa e sepak samo edna - duhovna, polna so razbiranje i reslivi problemi dokolku se pojavat. quote: Mozebi mnogu kje me napadnat sega, no seksot e samo perverzija, Zsh bi te napadnale, toa si e tvoe licno mislenje.:)
SydneyGuy	Why analyze it to death and try to make any sense of the why's and how's? Just enjoy the moment. I don't get why some people (especially women) need to create such a big drama about sex. As Duh said, it's mainly a function of procreation. The fact that we can enjoy it as well is really a bonus.
wolf_pack	From a man's point of view, women can be purely classified on ratings(1 to 10 for example). Talking to them is not a problem, she can be 5/10, 1/10 or 10/10 and I still beleive in good communication first. Women seem to be extremely illogical humans and be completely driven by their emotions. This is the part that creates the initial problems in the early stages of dating. And if by the 3rd or 4th date we haven't slept already, it might as well end for us; I don't think it will happen by the 10th that way :P Society might tell us that the girl's actions are those of a wrongdoer if she sleeps with the guy in the 2nd or 3rd date, but I tend to have more respect for her if we're intimate and if we click right away. That way I can be completely honest when telling her where our relationship might go! Cause let's face it, if she's good looking but terrible in bed, what else do men really need her for? Sex is a huge part of one's relationship, huge huge huge We live in a diverse world where women beleive they are equal with us, well, that has sort of backfired on them; example: guys like me are fairly good cooks and cook better than most girls (around my area i mean) so she can really be a rocket-scientist if she assumed that I want to have sex with her in order to make a relationship work. I don't think it's right to drag on and waste each other's time if we don't really wanna have sex more often (nature's pure fun). If we had to expand women's ratings, 9 out of 10 would be appearance only, the other one would be the social and personal characteristics. Women have a tendency to reverse these ratings for us, men
Natasa	Alekso is the doctor for relationships:)no i dont think that sex has to be the thing in the relationship,but man like man likes to talk so :)even if nothing hapends he will say yes we did it it was good)mean really.
wolf_pack	haha Natasa, vecer ke napravam eden mal field-report, na red e nova date, novo iskustvo :)) ne rekovme sea odma mora neshto da se sluchi:) A bilo bi dobro inace ;)
Mona Lisa	Vazen Daaaaaa ama ne najvazen.
Sirius	quote: Originally posted by Natasa Alekso is the doctor for relationships:)no i dont think that sex has to be the thing in the relationship,but man like man likes to talk so :)even if nothing hapends he will say yes we did it it was good)mean really. Eden vic - izreka za nas na nasha smetka: Koga bi bilo samo pola vistina od toa shto go zborat mazhite shto "se" im pravat na zhenite, ovie ke nemaat vreme ni da se ischeshlaat. Sekako deka ova nema veze, tuku samo da im dademe malku zdiv da zemat, nema smisla
Natasa	A be begaj sea ko da ne znajme nie so ste vie edniiiii!
TimeHacker	ne!
Aleksandra	quote: Originally posted by SydneyGuy Why analyze it to death and try to make any sense of the why's and how's? Just enjoy the moment. I don't get why some people (especially women) need to create such a big drama about sex. As Duh said, it's mainly a function of procreation. The fact that we can enjoy it as well is really a bonus. Dude, We are not analyzing to death, we are just discussing.
TimeHacker	yea sure,dont panic man :) we don`t kill nobody
Nina87	Pa...mislam deka zavisi od lugeto..Ima luge koi se potpolno asexualni i sexot ne im e nitu na um nitu im e biten i presuden, a ima i luge na koi im e mnogu potreben za da bi se cuvstvuvale ispolneto..Vo vrska ne bi uspeale ovie 2 razlicni tipa na lugje bidejki edniot bi baral edno a drugiot drugo.Nejkam se taka da razgranicam na crno i belo,tuku ova se samo primeri za da me razberete sto sakam da kazam..Toa e individualna rabota,ustvari vo slucajov e rabota na dvajca.
Duh	Bi napomenal deka isfrustriranosta ne doagja kako posledica na nemanje seksualni odnosi tuku poradi nedostatok na ljubov. Koj kje kaze deka ne sum vo pravo? Pa Enigma! Se zezam. :)
SydneyGuy	It's not the most important element in a relationship, but in my opinion it is one of the most important elements
Duh	And not much love goes around, eh?
VaSiLij	Sex rules, but it doesn't rule the relationship
VaSiLij	btw, seksot e najbiten samo tamu kade sto nema ljubov